I woke up this morning compelled to blog about several different topics so bear with me... there will a few entries today!
Lets talk about friends and negativity. How many of us women bash other women because of their appearance or their social status? I am not proud of it, but I know I did it when I was in High School...the thing is we are not in High School anymore.
I had this friend (actually an associate) who constantly bashed other women that were prettier or thinner than she is. This girl would sit at a table and pick apart a woman in front of men and other females. She would be rude to the waitress, and send back drinks because they were "to weak." This person created such discord while out in a social setting that I told my husband we will no longer socialize with this person. See plot thickens because my husband is good friends with her fiance, and I love her fiance like the brother I never had. He would never correct her in public or let her know that what she was doing was not okay. The issue became a problem and probably continues to grow. I refuse to surround myself or family with people like that. People who are so insecure, and dissatisfied with themselves that they put others down.
As women we are already criticized enough by the entire world! We do not need another woman spewing garbage about us behind our backs! We should uplift one another and complement each other on the positive things we are doing. The negativity needs to stop! Look at our youth.. young females are committing suicide because they are being bullied and ridiculed for their god given bodies! I see our gender headed in the wrong direction.
Click the link below to view a video I was inspired by! I agree with everything he is saying!
http://youtu.be/inGi9MlKD1k?list=UUDgUAAHgsV2fFZQm2fIWBnA
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